Monday, November 28, 2011

My Bucket List

My Mom would always say that I had a list for everything. I'm a list maker. I love making lists. So, several years ago, I sat down and carefully wrote out my bucket list.  I wanted my goals to be 1). attainable and, mostly, realistic,  2). safe'ish, 3). taking into consideration both the small and big picture, and 4). FUN!!  It's exciting to have something to look forward to and so gratifying to fulfill a desire.
  

Bucket lists are as unique as the person writing them out. I'm sure many of the aspirations I've inventoried would be laughable to some, perhaps insignificant. But that's the beauty in a bucket list - IT'S ALL YOURS. You can add to it at anytime and you manage how quickly or slowly you cross off those items. You can conquer it alone, or with someone you love...or like.  I truly believe that if you set your mind to it, you can achieve just about anything. So why not dream big?


JOY'S BUCKET LIST

     1.    Swim with dolphins
     2.    Get into a cage and swim with sharks (note: sharks are outside the cage)
     3.    Snorkel the Great Barrier Reef
     4.    Ride an elephant in India
     5.    Visit the Taj Mahal
     6.    Visit the pyramids
     7.    Swim in all the oceans of the world
     8.    Photograph every ocean in the world
     9.    Skydive
   10.    Visit Mount Everest
   11.    Skinny dip



   12.    Spend the night in a haunted house alone
   13.    Sing in front of a large audience
   14.    Visit all 50 states
   15.    See the Northern Lights
   16.    Visit Sweden
   17.    Visit Savannah



   18.    Visit the Weribee Mansion in Australia
   19.    Sing "The Sound of Music" in the Alps
   20.    Learn Latin
   21.    Go horseback riding on the beach
   22.    Visit Greece
   23.    Visit every country in Europe and document it photojournalistcally
   24.    Be "in the pit" as a photographer for a concert  (Marc Broussard)


   
   25.    Sell one of my songs
   26.    Record an EP
   27.    See the Coliseum in Rome
   28.    Visit the birthplace of Jesus
   29.    Visit Golgotha - see the tomb of Jesus
   30.    Have my photographs published
   31.    Be hired by a magazine to travel and do photography
   32.    Meet Kiefer Sutherland
   33.    See a play on Broadway
   34.    See an opera in Italy
   35.    Sing on stage with Jeff
   36.    Visit all 7 continents
   37.    Make a terminally ill child's dream come true
   38.    Photo journal the day in the life of someone in a third world country
   39.    Teach the children's sermon at church
   40.    Have a baby and be a Mommy
   41.    Visit the birthplace of Motown
   42.    Take a photography class with Audrey Woulard
   43.    Spend the day taking pictures with Bryan Adams
   44.    Volunteer with Hospice
   45.    See Otis Williams (the last living original Temptation) perform



   
 
   46.    Fly on a trapeze
   47.    Meet Dr. Dre
   48.    Learn to play guitar proficiently
   49.    Perform one of my own songs live
   50.    Find that engaged couple I photographed last year (See story here)
   51.    Live/work in NYC
   52.    Meet Annie Liebovitz
   53.    Spend a summer in Montana


I wonder how many people reading this have accomplished some of the things on my list?  I wonder how many I've accomplished on yours?  Sure, some of the items are kind of trivial and some are really moving. Some seem pretty far fetched, but I think they're all doable. I may have to get pretty creative with a few of these. I mean, I never expected in a MILLION YEARS to see the last living Temptation perform - mostly because I thought they were all dead - but when I read that Otis Williams was in fact alive and well (and, thankfully, still touring) I knew I had a shot. A shot indeed. I even shook his hand. That's, like, extra credit bucket list points!!

The list will continue to grow for as long as I have goals to accomplish. And, as long as there's breath in me, and the good Lord allows, I plan to journey on.

So, what's on YOUR bucket list?

5 comments:

Lauren said...

As I was reading this I started planning in my head..."you can see the Northern Lights in Sweden, so combine them...then go to Greece in the same trip." LET'S DO IT! My personal list to follow. :)

Jeff said...

Nothing is too trvial for a bucket list; it's what you want to do, after all. :) That cemetery in Savannah looks interesting. Where was the skinny dippin spot; somewhere in the Caribbean?

I have my own trivial bucket list as well as an anti-bucket list for things I have no intention of doing. (like skydive, eat a McRib) :)

Best of luck on yours! :)

Joy said...

Lauren, I realize now that I can combine a few of those and knock them out in one trip/activity.

Jeff, let me start by saying that the McRib is definitely on my anti-bucket list too. I'm sure I'd never get through my actual bucket list if I ingested one of those, McDisasters.

Savannah is really special to me because my Dad's family lived there for generations. That photo was taken at my Great-Grandparent's gravesite. And, the skinny-dipping took place in the Atlantic Ocean off the coast of Man-O-War Cay in the Bahamas...what a backdrop!! I'd love to hear more about your bucket list. :)

Jeff said...

Joy,

What I like about your list is the personal touch; visiting your Great-Grandparent's grave site. The Bahamas locale does look great. My one and only time in the Caribbean was at Punta Cana which we enjoyed.

I forgot to say, how cool it was to be in the pit photographing a concert. I always enjoyed photographing bands at small clubs as a hobby.

My blog list sprawls worse than a subdivision. I have a previously completed list of things I did (skinny dip, see the Great Wall of China, visit this place or that...) before these lists were in vogue. :) I have a small but growing anti-bucket list and an actual bucket list of stuff to do such as see the northern lights, take my family to Ireland, experience weightlessness, etc).

Sierra said...

meet dr. dre. How can we make this a reality for you???